A Lifeline Through Alzheimer’s: Will’s Journey with Feel Good for Life
Will regularly attends the Feel Good for Life (FGFL) programme at Hereford Leisure Centre, often accompanied by his son-in-law, Colin, or his daughter, Heather. He was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease in April 2023.
According to Heather, Will was the first to notice that something wasn’t quite right, as the symptoms developed gradually. His struggles with memory began to cause him significant stress, and he frequently questioned what was happening to him. As a close-knit family, they were aware of the changes and recognized that Will was having memory issues.
Heather, who typically manages the medical aspects of her father’s care, suggested a visit to the doctor. The doctor was supportive and promptly referred Will for a brain scan and an assessment by a dementia nurse. The diagnostic process moved swiftly, and results followed shortly after the evaluations.
Will continues to experience feelings of guilt, believing he is letting down those who have always relied on him. His wife, in particular, has found the change especially challenging, having depended on him for over 70 years. She now feels responsible for managing all the thinking in their household.
Will was introduced to the FGFL programme through a dementia coffee morning at a local Methodist church. After learning about the initiative, Mark, the programme coordinator, reached out to Heather to facilitate Will’s participation. Because Will’s wife has physical impairments, Colin typically accompanies him to the sessions. However, other family members are always eager to attend whenever possible.
Heather shared that Will finds the sessions very enjoyable, noting the friendly environment and the opportunity for physical exercise. The family felt well-prepared for the programme thanks to Mark’s thorough explanation by phone. Will has described FGFL as “something to look forward to” and appreciates the structure it brings to his week.
Beyond the physical activities, Will enjoys the social elements of FGFL. Although he is not naturally outgoing, he finds comfort in the setup, which allows for one-on-one or small group conversations instead of larger, overwhelming gatherings. He has expressed that the sessions have become a highlight of his week and help him stay active.
Both Heather and Will view FGFL as an essential part of their support network. Despite his diagnosis and ongoing memory challenges, Will continues to manage his personal care and expresses gratitude for the support he receives. His positivity and caring nature remain strong, though it is emotionally difficult for his family to see him distressed. They describe him as an amazing and deeply lovable father.
Heather and Will believe FGFL is a crucial lifeline, bringing them joy and support. They deeply value the sessions and hope the programme continues for a long time.